The table does not care about your politics, your bank balance, or your failed resolutions from last January. The table only asks that you pull up a chair. And then, as suddenly as it began, it ends. The last cracker is pulled. The last candle burns down. The last guest leaves a forgotten scarf on the banister.
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And when next November rolls around, and you feel that first shiver of anticipation, you will lie again. Willingly. Enthusiastically. Because the human heart, it turns out, needs tinsel as much as it needs bread. festive season
But during the festive season, we willingly suspend reality. We stay up until 2 a.m. wrapping gifts in shapes that defy geometry. We drive forty-five minutes to see a single inflatable Santa on a neighbour’s roof. We eat carbs without apology. The table does not care about your politics,
Consider the humble Christmas cookie exchange, or the Diwali mithai box. These are not snacks. They are edible diplomacy. When you hand a plate of baked goods to the grumpy postman, you are saying: “I see you. You exist. Please take this sugar and have a better day.” The last cracker is pulled
This is not madness. This is ritual.
But perhaps that is the point. The festive season is not about pretending the darkness isn’t there. It is about lighting a candle in the middle of it. We cling to rituals because they give us a script when we have no words. The lighting of the menorah. The burning of the Yule log. The frantic, last-minute wrapping of a gift for a neighbour you barely know.